Actress Ellen Pompeo is being called out on social media after the star claimed she had a heated exchange with Denzel Washington on the set of Grey’s Anatomy during a recent episode of her podcast, Tell Me with Ellen Pompeo.
In the episode, Pompeo — who plays Meredith Gray in ABC’s medical drama — said that while filming an episode from Season 12 called The Sound of Silence — which Washington directed — the two stars “went at it” after she told another actor to improvise some dialogue amid an emotional scene.
“And Denzel went ham on my ass,” Pompeo told former co-star Patrick Dempsey on her podcast regarding that day of filming. “He was like, ‘I’m the director. Don’t you tell him what to do.’”
“And I was like, ‘Listen, motherfucker, this is my show,’” the actress recalled saying back to Washington. “This is my set. Who are you telling?’ Like, ‘You barely know where the bathroom is.’”
Even though the actress tried to lessen the harshness of her comments by noting that she has “the utmost respect for [Washington] as an actor, as a director, as everything,” Pompeo added that Washingon was an actor who “doesn’t know shit about directing TV.”
Furthermore, the actress told Dempsey that Washington got the directing gig because Debbie Allen — an executive producer and director on Grey’s Anatomy — thought it would be an incentive for Pompeo to stay on the show.
As if that wasn’t loaded enough, Pompeo also shared that when Washington’s wife, Paulette, visited the set as a fan of the series, the actress let her know she wasn’t happy with Washington’s directing.
“I was like, ‘Yeah, he yelled at me today,” Pompeo recounted telling Paulette about the Oscar-winning Training Day actor. “Yeah, he let me have it today, and I’m not okay with him, and I’m not looking at him, and I’m not talking to him.’”
“So we didn’t get through it without a fight, but you know, that’s actors for you — passionate and fiery — and that’s where you get the magic,” Pompeo noted, before adding at the end — “and that’s where you get the good stuff. So it was an amazing experience, it really was.”
Twitter wasn’t here for the shade thrown at Washington in Pompeo’s story. Moreover, people seem to be confused as to why the actress thought the story would be good to share on her podcast when it just comes across like she was unjustly and unnecessarily trying to “son” Washington when he was just trying to do his job.
See Twitter’s commentary down below.
Ellen Pompeo didn’t clash with Denzel Washington because they were both actors, she clashed with him because she didn’t appreciate a Black man telling her what to do.
— Bishop Talbert Swan (@TalbertSwan) October 1, 2021
I don’t know if Ellen Pompeo revealing that she yelled at Oscar Winning Denzel Washington on the set of Grey’s Anatomy is the flex she thought it would be. She seems like a Karen, and if I hear her say one more time she’s married to a Black man and has Black kids… pic.twitter.com/rYF3ivkx32
— 🩺sassenach 🎃 (@omwill3) September 30, 2021
“I was like, ‘Listen, motherf–ker, this is my show,'" Ellen continued. "This is my set. Who are you telling?" I wonder if she’d talk to Scorsese or Spielberg like that? https://t.co/QDaMTVtdn5
— @tiffanydcross (@TiffanyDCross) September 30, 2021
Ellen Pompeo really just told us she disrespected Denzel Washington like we’re supposed to laugh and applaud her pic.twitter.com/y8EJ0o3x6z
— sab (@stoleurdad) September 30, 2021
denzel washington: can you get me some water
ellen pompeo: i’m ellen pompeo
denzel washington: ok ellen pompeo can you get me some water— dani (@missemilyblunt) September 30, 2021
So Ellen Pompeo tells Denzel Washington "Listen mother fcuker, this is my show" bc he said "Don't tell him that, I'm the director". Yet she says Denzel went nuts on HER? Y'all see how folks lie? She clearly went nuts on HIM. This is why Black folks film encounters with kherens. https://t.co/p8RZO4ODDX
— BlackWomenViews Media (@blackwomenviews) September 30, 2021
Ellen Pompeo wasn’t just wildly rude to Denzel Washington on set, she confronted his wife when she came to visit. And the entire reason Denzel Washington was brought on as a director is that producer Debbie Allen was trying to appease Pompeo. Wow. https://t.co/eqaHBPu0P1
— Saeed Jones (@theferocity) September 30, 2021
Watching Ellen Pompeo on old reruns of Law and Order will show you she is not near as good as she thinks she is. Just a little reminder that she has never and will never hold a candle to the legend that is Denzel Washington. pic.twitter.com/rklGGQEVQ5
— Kimberly Fisher ☮💟 (@AntiFascist64) September 30, 2021
Denzel Washington: Ellen can you move slightly to the left..
Ellen Pompeo : DO YOU KNOW WHO TF I AM?! This is MY SET! THIS IS MY SHOW pic.twitter.com/zduokIDJ6A
— raveen marie ☕️✨ (@xoraveen) September 30, 2021
Ellen Pompeo really disrespected Denzel Washington and proudly told the world like we were gonna be on her side… pic.twitter.com/oZpmVoO6L4
— Shonnia Burton (@shonnia21) September 30, 2021
in tears over ellen pompeo thinking….."ahhhh I have just the story for episode 1 of my new podcast!"
— Astead (@AsteadWesley) September 30, 2021